I’ve learned over time that you can’t be all things to everyone. In a lot of cases you can’t even be 1 thing to a lot of people let alone everyone if you ever want to get things done. 

People are a time suck. Vendors, coworkers, randoms. Everyone wants your time and if you’re phone isn’t ringing, your notifications are doing whatever they do. Chirp or bleep or bloop or something. 

In order to take control of this you have to learn the art of giving zero fucks. Some people have zen habits, I have zero fucks given habits. Who’s got time to meditate on giving zero fucks when you give zero fucks about it. Seems legit, right? 

So as you brave on through this cold Monday morning. Remember that unless you give 1 fuck about any particular thing, you need to move it into the the bucket of zero fucks given and get on with your day.